3 ADHD Symptoms Normally Observed In Children
January 9, 2012 by Dana McLean
Filed under Parenting
Most symptoms of ADHD can appear to be normal symptoms of child behavior, causing many children to be suspected of being ADHD. The difficulty of dealing with this disorder is then amplified for many parents. On top of this, there are multiple symptoms for true ADHD. So it’s really best if a parent avoids taking one particular behavior and then thinking the child does have the disorder. They must rely on a trained professional to determine this. Read below to learn some more about three forms of ADHD symptoms.
Once you suspect your child may be ADHD, there are multiple behaviors you can focus on. Each type of behavior has specific qualities that you should look for. A child with ADHD will show signs of inattentiveness and lack of focus in all areas of their life. It is common to see that child moving form one thing to the next and so on. Often this is construed as hyperactivity or even compulsion. For ADHD, this behavior will remain consistent for many months. If you do, then it’s probably best to talk to your doctor.
A child who is continually disruptive and getting in trouble in school is another symptom of ADHD. There can be other instances of this, too, such as being difficult with other school activities that are usually of the kind that disrupts the normal setting. Is it common for your child to exhibit the same things at home? This could be a clear indication, especially if you have heard from your child’s teacher. This behavior should persist for longer than six months. If that is the situation, then you really should make an appointment with your doctor and have a chat about it.
There are many angles to be studied to determine if a child is ADHD. A professional is the best person to determine this. However, in the area of relationships or interactions with other people, another common symptom is the child with ADHD will be the source of problems for the relationship. That can be the case either between children or adults. Also, remember this behavior must be observed for many months.
Be sure to seek advice from your family physician if after looking at these factors, you feel there is cause for concern.
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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder At A Glance
February 18, 2010 by Angela Johnson
Filed under Parenting
ADHD is really a condition that combines hyperactivity with the inability to maintain attention. It doesn’t mean that every lively child is hyperactive neither does it mean that every youngster that at times has attention lapses has attention deficit disorder.
Instead, there are actually formalized guidelines with regard to diagnosing ADHD plus a diagnosis is only given to a child whenever it adversely affects school or social relationships over a long period.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder can continue to adulthood and when untreated can keep the child and adult from performing at their maximum potential both educationally and socially. Because the psychological affliction is based on observation the important factors for diagnosing a youngster with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is quite wide-ranging. Males outnumber girls clinically determined to have ADHD.
It is estimated that three percent to five percent of children worldwide are afflicted by ADHD and also that thirty percent to 60% of the kids diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder carry signs of illness straight into adulthood.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is a mix of behaviors which are present in virtually any kid or grownup normally. For instance a person might from time to time be inattentive. Children may very well on occasion are overly energetic and still not have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Context as well as frequency as well as their effect on the person’s development and relationships determine whether a diagnosis of ADHD is made.
Treatment of ADHD may perhaps require several methods including drugs, behavior modification, and diet and lifestyle improvements. Stats are indicative of a combination of all three as being the very best treatment solution for childhood ADHD.
There are experimental treatments attempted for ADHD including the use of health supplements, like omega-3 fatty acids to be able to try to reduce and sometimes get rid of the symptoms.
Another experimental treatment being tried out is EEG biofeedback. Stats are not yet available concerning the actual long-term value of these types of treatment options however a report released in 2007 suggested the EEG biofeedback therapy showed an equivalent rate of usefulness as medications in treatment and modification of some behaviors as there was a continual normalization of EEG patterns.
The long lasting effects of childhood ADHD are being analyzed and research indicates that youngsters that have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder will have far more issues compared to ordinary in adolescence regardless of the actual healing techniques. Some 37% of all children diagnosed with ADHD are not going to graduate from high school. That only 5% of children identified with ADHD currently graduate from university when compared with 28 percent of the rest of the population.
Though ADHD is persistent straight into adulthood for a considerable number of youngsters identified as having ADHD, the difficulties included with it might decrease as they cultivate their own strategies of handling it. The hyperactivity may be translated into restlessness and issues with interpersonal interactions.
Mothers and fathers of kids with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder could perhaps reap the benefits of counseling in order to cultivate specific coping habits and approaches to deal with the particular worries associated with parenting a youngster with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. You will find support groups and foundations for parents of children with ADHD.
ADHD impacts not just the child but also the parents because it will manifest in rebellious behavior and very poor impulse control. A lot of parents research questions concerning their child’s actions as well as medical treatment and innovative ways to approach behavioral issues.
Angela Johnson originally comes from USA. She has additional information here on adult adhd.
Have Reasonable Expectations of Your Children’s Behavior
December 7, 2009 by Dr. Noel Swanson..
Filed under Parenting
Every parent has expectations from their children, but some have unreasonable expectations. These expectations are formed unconsciously from our own wants and desires. Often parents want to see their children achieve what they themselves couldn’t. This is an unreasonable expectation. It is not necessary that your child will have the same talent and aptitude that you may want him to have.
The key is to have positive and reasonable expectations for your children. How do you establish a set of positive child discipline expectations? How do you know if your child discipline expectation is even reasonable? These aren’t easy questions to answer.
To come to any reasonable conclusion about the reasonableness of your expectations you will have to do some research – inside and outside. Outside, compare your expectations with others; don’t compare your children with other’s children. Look into what the established child behavior guidelines are for your child’s age. If a child at one is not expected to construct a full sentence, don’t expect it from your child.
When you decide whether an expectation you have for you child is reasonable, you have to be as objective as possible. Look into what the established child behavior guidelines are for your child’s age. If the established guideline is that children don’t develop full sentence speech till they are at least a year old, expecting a full sentence out of your six-month old isn’t a responsible expectation.
Children cannot be compared, and it is one of the most common mistakes parents make when they compare their child with the neighbor’s. If your child happens to be average in studies, try your best to help him improve but learn to accept it. All children are not born to be geniuses. Your child might have some other talent; look for it and develop that instead of harping on grades.
Having unreasonable expectations of your children leads you to disappointment and your children to feeling like they can’t measure up. Neither of these situations is positive and should be avoided since they tend to lead to child behavioral problems.
Of course, you must set reasonable expectations in child behavior or child discipline in different areas. After that you should formulate a set of goals and hold to them. Let your child know when he meets those expectations by rewarding him. This will help you take him further on the road to success, but at his pace, not yours.
Often times, having had the success of reaching and meeting the first expectation, your children will be able to meet that higher expectation. The biggest thing to remember is to not push your desires onto your children. If you were never good in sports but you wanted to be the star athlete of your school, to make that dream come true, don’t push your child to be a superstar against his or her will. Also, don’t force your child into athletics just because he or she is good at it. That’s placing your expectations from your past onto your children. That only creates a negative environment, child behavior problems and child discipline issues. Reasonable expectations promote growth and positive self image and are an essential parenting skill.
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Get Rid Of Temper Tantrums
November 15, 2009 by Chloe Bilboa
Filed under Parenting
If you have young children then the chances are you will have had to endure the sometimes cringe-worthy temper tantrums they sometimes throw. It can cause other people present to laugh at the sight of your child rolling around the floor screaming because they cannot fit something in a hole or because you will not let them have a sweet or be able to do something. But it is embarrassing for the parent.
The amusement from the first couple of incidences will soon turn to the parent being perplexed by the tantrums. Mainly from not being able to know what to do to prevent the child from having a tantrum or not knowing what to do to once in the throes of one.
You may have to deal with the tantrum differently when out in public or at someone else’s house. Whereas at home you may send them to their bedroom or to a quiet place, there will not be this option if at the shops or a house they are not familiar with.
Blowing your top and screaming at your child will inflame the situation and may cause your child’s tantrum to get worse! So take a deep breath and speak slowly and calmly, rather than shouting. Try to reason with your child rather than throwing your weight around, you are much bigger and they may feel intimidated.
Conversely, if you respond by being overly concerned by it, they may in the future use tantrums as a way of gaining your attention as they are going to be assured of a response or reaction from you.
It is far easier to stop the tantrum before it escalates too much then to stop a full blown one. If your child is a toddler then try to distract them and take their focus away for their source of anger.
Stick to your guns. If they are having a tantrum because you would not let them do something, the worst thing to do is to give in and then let them have it, just so that the tantrum stops. This will teach them that you will give them what they want if they misbehave.
For preschool children, taking time out or getting them to sit in the corner of a quiet room or bottom step of the stairs can be an effective way to resolve the tantrum. Make them sit there for a minute or so, not too long or they will not remember why they have been put there.
If you wish you can make older children sit there for a slightly longer time, perhaps till they have calmed down and worked out what they did wrong. This will not work for toddlers as their memory is not as developed.
Whichever method of stopping the tantrums you use, you must always explain to the child, no matter what their age, why they cannot throw a tantrum and the reasons you have told them off or made them take time out. Once your child learns that their tantrum will not get them anywhere they will soon stop them.
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Living With Special Needs Children
October 12, 2009 by Dr. Noel Swanson
Filed under Parenting
Following are questions asked by parents of special needs children:
1. Do special needs children understand cause and effect and also rewards versus punishments? Do they comprehend the same way as other children?
The interesting thing is that this is not an issue. All creatures great and small have an interest in reward versus punishment to some degree. Think about the bottom of the food chain such as a cockroach. Cockroaches despise the light and live to move around in the dark hours of the night. They associate good feelings with dark and bad feelings with light. They might not think about it in those terms or even at all.
Turn on the lights and the roach goes scuttling for darkness. In a very basic sense, light = punishment and darkness = reward. The behavior of escaping from light to dark is rewarded, and so is repeated.
Roaches don’t have a memory and can’t be instructed like we can. Canines can be instructed because they have a wonderful memory. They know, for example, if they hear the word “stay” they will stay in place in order to receive a treat or reward.
The more sophisticated the creature, the better their memory and analytical skills, and the greater their awareness of time (i.e. that future events will happen) then the more complex the varieties of reward and punishment that can be used.
How do you know what you can use? Simple. You start with a good guess, and then experiment. You implement a system of rewards and or punishments to modify a behavior (exact details of how to do this are in the book), and see what happens. If the behavior changes, the carry on! If it does not, then one of two things applies:
a) your rewards and punishments systems did not have large enough effect in your child’s life or
b) they were unable to make a connection between the behavior and the consequent reward or punishment. For example, if the time interval between behavior and consequence is too long, then the younger or less able child may not be able to connect the two.
So, when you see that your system is not working. You step back, have a think about it, modify it, and then try again. Ultimately you will either succeed in changing the behavior, or you won’t. Which leads to the second question:
2. What do you do when all your best efforts to change a behavior have failed? Richard (the Dad) has been struggling with his child, Tim, who has PDD. Tim is supposed to do a few hours of physical therapy each day. But guess what? Much of the time he is not too keen on the idea!
You try everything in your bag of tricks and read the book thoroughly. You try different reward and punishment systems to no avail. You have struggled to make physical therapy appear like a fun time. No matter what you do, you are not accomplishing the physical therapy session every day.
What can you do to fix this? You have two options including:
a. You could become all bent out of shape about it. You get mad at yourself for your apparent failure. You feel like you are no service to your child. You want to find the magic cure that will help your child do his physical therapy.
b. He can step back, look at the situation, and take a calmer, more pragmatic approach, accepting that maybe 50% of the time is all he is going to get, and that that is better than the 30% that Tim was doing a year ago.
Which is better?
The downfall of (a.) is that you will amp up your stress level which affects everyone negatively. You are not having a good time and your results won’t improve this way.
Sometimes you just have to understand the fact that your child may never be fully motivated to complete the physical therapy. It’s sad, but true. It is better to work with what you have then cry about not achieving perfection.
Is it not better to dial back the expectations and the striving, and aim to achieve the best that you can GIVEN THE LIMITATIONS YOU FIND YOURSELF UNDER? And, surprisingly, often when the stress is relieved, and the fun returns, then performance improves. But even if it doesn’t, which would you rather have: a) 50% performance and everyone is miserable or, b) 50% performance and everyone is happy?
The important thing to remember is to not try to compete to an unrealistic level. Strive to achieve the small successes and accept that things might never totally be the way you want them to be.
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