Child Day Care Tips
November 29, 2009 by Daniel Waser
Filed under Parenting
The first experience at daycare for a child who has always been at home with his or her family can be traumatic. The transition between home and this type of environment will go much more smoothly if the child is trusted to a high quality place of care. Because of the nurturing environment they can offer, many families look to their immediate loved ones or acquaintances for possible providers. There are, of course, additional tips for parents to consider if that one is not something that is available to them.
A child’s daycare is often determined through the recommendations of any acquaintances with children. Any constructive advice on the personalities of the staff and their competence should be taken into consideration by a parent. Each child and provider comes with their own foibles and quirks, so not everyone is going to give the same review to each caretaker – it is the provider that earns the harshest or most frequent negative criticism that should steer a parent away.
Another tip is to solicit the Department of Social Services for a list of daycare facilities in your area. Don’t be afraid to solicit the advice of your child’s doctor, who might have advice to give based on what he or she has heard from parents. Child caretakers can also be found in phone books and newspapers. The best providers will want to meet your child prior to enrollment. Allowing your child to meet their potential caretaker and see the place where they are going to be staying is very important.
Presuming the daycare allows it why not send the child’s favorite comfort material with them. This should help ease the sense of homesickness that many children feel during the first few weeks. Another tool parents use to help their child feel at ease is giving them a picture of home – usually of a family member – though parents should use caution because sometimes this only worsens the sense of loss that your child feels. If you can stay with the child for a while in the mornings, that is a great way to make him or her feel safe and secure in their new surroundings. If you give a time to your child that you will return and pick them up, make sure you are there on time. Many children are able to calm down and enjoy their daycare experience more if they know when you are going to be returning, and if you so consistently at the same time every day.
The actual leaving process needs to be as positive as it can be for the child. If you send a negative message, or if you seem upset, your child will only be ten times worse than she or he already was. It typically takes less than fifteen minutes of crying before the child calms down after their parents leave. Returning for the child is when you should spend a greater amount of time gushing over his or her bravery – your good-bye should be simple and to the point.
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