Dealing With Problems Associated With Potty Training Boys
March 3, 2011 by Erin McDonald
Filed under Babies
It may sound as though boys and girls are being stereotyped, yet acknowledging that certain potty training problems can be more particular to boys than to girls is simply reasonable. Naturally, there are some very strong-willed girls, but extremes of stubbornness are probably more characteristic of boys. Parents also need to keep in mind that emotional and physical readiness for potty training tends to come later in boys than for girls. Some stubbornness could also stem from trying to train them too early.
A problem in potty training boys might involve resistance to having a bowel movement in a potty or the toilet rather than in a diaper. If this is how your own boy demonstrates his unwillingness, he could actually end up holding it so long that he might even make himself constipated. The constipation itself might be remedied by trying to give the child extra fiber, but this issue might actually require consultation with a doctor if it goes on too long. Constipation is one of the most common types of potty training problems.
Another problem might involve what is known as potty training regression, which is where the child appears to have been trained for a while, but starts having accidents again. This is a frequent occurrence, sometimes stemming from a stressor like the birth of a new sibling or moving to a new house.
Or occasionally, learning to use the potty is such a major skill that once it’s accomplished and the child begins learning the next skill, this one lapses a little bit, and needs reinforcement. Only on very rare occasions does this type of regression indicate a genuine medical problem.
Another issue in potty training boys is the toilet itself. To a small child, the toilet is very large, and when it flushes, it’s also loud. This can often be dealt with by using a child potty on the floor instead, with the contents dumped into the toilet and flushed after he’s left the room. Gradually, as he grows more used to the process, he’ll become more used to the toilet as well. But it’s important for parents to recognize these various issues their child might face, and be ready with comfort and reassurance as they try to help the boy overcome them.
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Child Potty Training
February 4, 2010 by Dave Oliver
Filed under Parenting
Has potty training your child not been as successful as you thought it would be? As a parent, you will have to decide when your child is developmentally ready to start using the potty. Most children are ready between two to three years old, but there are variables. Here are a few ideas that might make the process easier on you and your toddler.
Start practicing using the toilet around the age of two. Go out and purchase a small potty chair or a potty seat that fits over the regular sized toilet. If you are potty training a boy make it has a shield in front so they do not make a mess. Bring the potty chair into the room that your child spends most of their time in on a day or weekend when you have some free time. Let your child run around in just a shirt with their diaper off. If you have them in a diaper they will never get the idea that when they urinate it will run down their legs and make a mess.
Make sure you have a clear schedule for potty training. Don’t try to potty train when there is a disruption to the regular schedule. Anything, such as holidays, family visiting, a new baby, etc… can interfere with your toddler’s learning. The best time to attempt potty training is over a long weekend when you have several days free to dedicate to the process.
Once you are ready to work with your toddler, dedicate specific words to the process. Have a word for body parts and the urine and bowel movements. Avoid negative words such as naughty, so your child won’t feel self conscious. Be matter of fact with your child, and consider purchasing books to help your child with the concept of potty training.
Some parents will use a child’s action figure or a baby doll to demonstrate potty training. If you decide to do this, explain that the “baby is going pee pee in the potty”, and you can even let the toy graduate from diapers to underwear.
Incentives can streamline the training process. Not only will your child be dry and not have a diaper rash, but use rewards for successfully going to the bathroom. Use a sticker chart or other reward system to encourage positive reinforcement.
Use books and videos to help your child understand the process of potty training and see other children learning to use the potty. There are lots of books and videos available online or in your local bookstore. Let your child look at their favorite book while sitting on the potty to help the minutes pass by.
Mark the beginning of potty training on your calendar, and talk it up with your child. This will create a sense of anticipation in your child instead of dread, and your child will be ready to try. Mark it with stickers or other fun pictures and make it almost like a holiday.
Once learning to potty train, some children will enjoy the unroll the toilet paper. There is a solution for this. Take a used roll, and put it inside the new roll. This will slow down the roller speed, and allow your child to get toilet paper with less waste.
The training process can take a few days up to months. Don’t lose heart and get frustrated. Even once your child has seemingly mastered the potty, there will still be occasional accidents. With time and consistency, your child will soon be using the potty alone, and you will be wondering how your little baby grew up so fast.
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Potty Training Boys – 3 Reasons You Should Start Potty Training A Boy Sitting Down
November 9, 2009 by Lily Adams
Filed under Babies
Potty training boys can be a lot harder than potty training girls; this is usually because boys have more steps to learn. This article will discuss 3 reasons you should start potty training a boy sitting down.
1. Lessen The Confusion:
It really doesn’t matter whether or not they learn how to urinate standing up or sitting down, but either way they will still have to learn how to go to the bathroom sitting down so they can have a bowel movement. Because of this fact it is often recommended that boys learn how to do both sitting down first, this will lessen the confusion as they do not have to learn two different skills simultaneously.
2. Fewer Messes:
After they have mastered urinating standing up, it is likely you will have more messes to clean up as they perfect their aim. This is a natural part of the process and may make things a little more difficult for you if it is done in combination with simply learning to use the potty. If you potty train a boy sitting down first, there will be fewer messes to deal with which will make things go smoother for both of you.
3. Quicker Results:
When you tackle one step at a time, you will most likely see faster results for the whole process. After having successfully learned to use the potty, mastering the skill of standing to pee should be a piece of cake. Messes for this next process are inevitable, but they won’t be in combination with normal accidents that occur for the normal potty training experience.
In this article we looked at 3 reasons to start potty training a boy sitting down. Boys have more to learn than girls do, because of this sitting down during the process is less confusing for them. The benefits are fewer messes in the beginning and faster results since tackling one step at a time is much easier on both of you.
Potty training toddlers is really hard; weeks of accidents and frustration are usually inevitable. But the end result is worth it; hopefully the above steps will help you get through the diaper to underwear transition.
Potty train your boy sitting down or standing up? That is the question…
Do you want to learn more?
Lily Adams, a mother of two and web entrepreneur has created a helpful meeting place for parents. Her website, ParentMeltingPot.com, has helpful information regarding how to potty train boys as well as many other parent problems.




